I really wanted to have a good cry but I wouldn't let myself telling myself it was silly. But I was so drawn into that scene it was like I was there, in that scene, feeling the pain of wanting to join my close friend in that girl to girl special moment. It was like something I have been cheated out of my entire life.
I was out Friday with my
. We went to a girl event. I was in drab, as I always am when we plan a night together. That's my choice. On the way home I looked over at her in the passenger's seat and thought of what she had said before, "If you were a chick we'd be so together!" That brought a smile to my face and I became quiet.
When I thought about how she spent more time with me than anyone else and when we danced how she took my arms and wrapped them around her, well, I don't have to tell you what I felt.
The next day I found myself really saddened by the reality I can never be with her like I want and in the way she wants.
There was a solution, but it's long past.
When I have times like this it saddens me I will live the remainder of my life knowing my dream will never come true and that she and I will never be one. I guess that's why that scene got to me so much.