One of the challenges that I have had since beginning this journey two years ago (45 years ago) is that I have never been able to tell anyone with the exception of my therapist. She is very supportive but it is not the same as telling my wife. As much as I love my wife I know her feelings on this subject and I know that she is unaccepting. The interesting thing is that now that I have completly become Marsha on the inside she is constantly letting me know what a better partner I am. Now comes the tricky part. My older sister, who lives in San Francisco and has very open attitudes, has also said how different I sound during our phone conversations, how I sound more upbeat and positive. I hinted at the fact that she was now talking to her sister instead of her brother and she really wanted to hear more. She is coming in for a visit in a few weeks and I am considering about letting her know everything. We've always been very close and her acceptance would mean a lot. Has anyone out there come out to their sister? If so, how did it go? (Also, she dressed me up in our mother's very sexy black stockings, garter and bra when I was 5, my first CD experience.)