As a proud member of the second category I will list my reasons.
1. Per the wife and family-no going out in public.
2. Per my own standards. I am not ready. Granted I can look good in still photos but my overall presentation, voice, mannerisms etc. is still years from being perfected. I also am not ready to be clocked by 100% of the people that I would come in contact with, and having to deal with possible negative situations. So for me at least I've come to accept and have no problems with my life in the closet. The closet is good.