occasionally on this forum I find some rather ugly, or mean spirited posts. They differ greatly from what one would expect from a group of people wanting acceptance or encouragement for doing something that society for the most part shuns.
But, one term I have read thrown around her is Fetish.
One poster here flat out put down some CDers for the fact they might get aroused by the clothing.
Now the reason I was offended by this is quite simple.
I find some items of the clothing to be quite arousing. Sorry, but I do. I have stated before I am a very sensuous and tactile person. The feel of smooth nylon, or tight spandex is quite a turn on for me. Now does this mean it is my only outlet for sexual energy?
Are you kidding?
No. It is not. There are times when I am feeling...frisky (?) that as I am getting dressed an image of a female I know of and am attracted to doing the same, enters my mind.
I will say also that the thought of slipping into a pair of pantyhose or tights, is far more "arousing" than say putting on a pair of cotton briefs.
Wriggling into a catsuit is much more appealing than say putting on a bulky three piece suit.
Pulling up a pair of spandex disco pant that fit my body like a second skin, is far more...interesting than pulling on a pair of blue jeans that fit like loose tubes of rough fabric.
Once the item is on, the arousal goes away for the most part.
I have read here there are guys that are turned on at putting on a tuxedo. That to me is quite astonishing seeing as to me a tuxedo is one of the most god awful, and boring outfits out there.
Now, to the point of this thread.
Why is fetish viewed so negatively? Why do fellow CDers or Transsexuals put others down for this aspect.
And for those that are turned on, if only for a little bit during the process, explain some of the feelings (within decency) that accompany those items you find most "sexy"
GGs, please be truthful and say if you also find some stuff arousing.
I am curious about this aspect, but really do not like what I find on the internet.