So I think I scared a guy tongiht at a bar when he made a comment about something and I responded in my deep manly voice.
As I posted in another thread, I was at a bar en femme and as I was trying to draw the attention of the bartender to order another beer, someone a few seats away said "I don't think he wants to get you another beer, ha ha"
I said in my normal male voice "I know, right - how long should I wait." He was visibly surprised by my voice so it got me wondering, shold I be trying to use a higher voice when en femme? I have a voice that I used to use when I was younger but I just don't know the protocol in a gay bar if that is either appropriate or necessary. Does anyone have the rule book on this? Is this a 15 yard personal foul or just the 5 yard incidental penalty?