I'm not sure if this is the direction you want to take, but there is another path. While I believe it is true that the "desire" to crossdress will never contuniously stay gone, there are those who have chosen to ignore those desires and live a life without actually crossdressing. The ones that seem to be the most successful, are the ones that still accept that they are crossdressers and that it's not a bad thing, they just refuse to act on their desire due to whatever particular circumstance they have chosen to live in.
It's like a faithful priest or nun that denies allowing themselves to act on their normal desire for sex and marriage, but to focus their life on what they feel are higher causes. It obviously can be done, but it takes a lot of disclipine.