30 + years i kept my dressing in the closset , and this summer i slipped up and my wife found some of my lingeri. ( now some of you will tell me off) . we talked about it and that was that so she does not know yet the full extent of my dressing . two weeks ago she found a missing dress of mine, and that was quickly taled about with no hastles , and the other day i had my size 47 heels out on my bed when i asked the kids to help with some house choores. i thought nothing of it untill i found all my shirts folded nicely and placed next to my shoes ,(ophs thats a bad mistake)
my question is as you get older do you drop your guard or do you just get tired of hideing as i also and not so petrified and frightened as i used to be about slipping up , or is that just another sign that i have accepted who i am .
i would love to hear any comments or if anyone else has experinced anything like this .