So I've been a crossdresser for as much of my life as I can remember.
I've progressed through all the stages, from a few stolen moments in panties, to underdressing 24/7, to going out in public en femme.
The issue now is... I think I've hit a barrier. I've pretty much gotten about as far as I can go without 'coming out', and I can't ever envision that being a realistic option. It would mean too many possible repercussions with family, work and friends.
(Yes, I know that family and friends would eventually get over it, but I would permanently put a crimp in my career path and future income... and getting new employment would be several magnitudes more difficult. As would making new friends if the first thing they ever know about me is that I CD, even BEFORE they might get a chance to find out what else we may have in common. I'm realistic enough to know how it would all play out)
I go out in public dressed, my SO is fully comfortable with me dressing at home so I can wear whatever I want almost every minute I am home... beside a few other minor 'bucket list' type goals there are not really any steps to take that are realistic for me.
The only steps on from here are
Transitioning? Nope, not even tempted. I'm not TG, just CD.
Hormones? WAY too much of a step (though I'd LOVE real breasts)
Anything that permanently changes my body? Nope, see family/friends/work above
Living 'full-time' for even a short while (days, weeks or months)? Without hormones, implants, laser treatments, etc. this is unrealistic. I can 'do' femme for a few hours at a time, but nothing more.
So here I sit, realizing that I don't really have anywhere to go from here... and I guess starting to feel restless about it. Words like 'Hormones' and 'implants' keep popping into my head, but I KNOW that they are not right for me.
I guess the only thing I can do now is keep refining my appearance to make it easier to blend in public, but that is only small progress, no big steps into new things like I've been used to in the past.
Does anybody else share this feeling?