The other night my wife and I went shopping at the beauty supply store, I told her she could get a few things and I wanted to get a few things (just cheap jewelry and crap like that) Anyways so after I got my stuff I really wanted to try it on, but it was getting late so I had to wait till last night. Well a friend of ours met me here at the house before my wife came home from work and I was already dressed (my wife knew I was getting ready) and we just sat and talked about nothing in particular, but I just felt so normal and not normal at the same time. Normal because I didn't feel like a freak or something, but not normal as in this is not something I share with people. I told my wife to come home soon because I was still nervous. Well long story short (too late) We all hung out last night and I had a great time! I know I was nervous and more timid, didn't say as much, but it was really cool! We just chilled all night, and afterwards, without getting too into details, my wife and I were laying down on the floor, I leaned above her to kiss her, and she moved my hair out of my eyes and brushed my face with her hand. I don't know what is was about such a simple movement, but it just made me feel so loved and warm, I've always kind of been an emotional guy (who just pushes emotions under the floor) but honestly it was such a loving and sweet emotion that I wanted to break down and tell her so, but instead I just shot her a smile that she knew exactily what I wanted to say. I love my wife so much, she means the world to me, and I know she is cool with this stuff, but I am a bit much to handle at times.
We are still new to this stuff, and I am still going through emotions and things I didn't know were there. I guess I just had a really good night, I got to be Lexxi the whole time and it was so nice, and my wife made me feel more confident in myself and loved in that one instant than I felt most of my life...
For those of you with support SO's, have they ever done anything like this for you? Maybe a small offering like an old pair of jeans or a love note or just something like that, that you will always remember.