with my new "in touch" with the military stance, and recently reading several pages of military thoughts, I have started wondering why so many of us actually joined. males and females. I know one of my main reasons for joining was I hoped IT would cure me of my desire to crossdress. It did for 7 weeks,the length of basic. But only because I had nothing feminine with me. After basic I always had access to some femm finery. vivian fair