Originally Posted by
jasmin44
When you do find a gay and lesbian bar. Where a long skirt not a short one. Wear a nice top with sleeves but not low cut. Order a drink and sit by the bar never look at anyone never smile at anyone. If the barman talks to you then talk back he may be there to see if there is any information he can tell the otheres. Only tell him what you want him to know.
Or maybe, someone could also come and start talking to you. Which ever it is somewhere in the conformation let it nowen you are a straight cross dresser but never at the begining or at the end and always smile as you speek, never look down never make eye contack just be who you are a staright cross dresser and you soon have friends that you can talk to.
This is how I started out on my first day. Yes, it's nerve-racking, at the bar your nervous system is all over the place but that fisrt sip of your drink makes it all go away. I just hope this helps