It was a surprise to me but yes my wife has borrowed one of my dresses (although she complained that her boobs kept pipping out.... Go figure) and borrowed one if my slips and camisole a few times and this is a woman who is fine with me dressing for bed and under dressing but never wants to see me dressed. I don't mind her borrowing my things as like what what said previously that's how I started cding anyway borrowing hers. Lol