I think at this rate I might get a reputation of "stirring the pot" too much LOL! What can I do, I'm inquisitive
Ok so... My last thread about the basic "why" of cross-dressing started a little mental thought process and wound up on the topic of sex (uh oh, i'm going THERE). And, since I didn't really answer my own question in the last thread, I'll ask one and give you my personal answer also.
Is there a relationship between cross-dressing and sex TO YOU? And if so, and you feel comfortable to share, what is it?
Personally, I'm a very day-dreamy person. When I get into that feminine frame of mind, whether its acted out in reality or in my imagination, I suddenly find myself feeling things that I can only describe as... natural feminine sexuality. But any other time when I am not in touch with that femininity, I am quite typically heterosexual. But I think for me, my desire to cross-dress (this might answer the other thread) is based on more factors than just the aesthetics. Infact, if I had a gun to my head I would say I am classically trans-gendered. However, I haven't really figured out to what extent yet.
In short, my sexuality is based almost exclusively on being the opposite sex of the other involved. In all my sexual day-dreaming and fantasies, I am a man with a woman, or I'm a woman with a man.
Feel free to share if you are comfortable to! xo