So, I finally met someone who accepts me as I am. A crossdresser most of my life, very small in the male parts dept. At first she was accepting even helpful. I felt fantastic! She started to tell me what to wear. I'm still OK w/that. Then she took me to a party w/her friends from work. A little teasing but it was fun right? Wrong. Now she gets a little demanding and I don't know what to do. My male identity is gone. She tells me what to do , how to dress, I am humble.