Well, when I first started to shave my legs I did the thighs first and left the calves coz I wear board shorts during summer. Then I shaved my tusch, then the pubes leaving a landing strip, Now I shave everywhere but use a personal groomer on my lower arms. I would never go back to hairy as I love the feeling of being hairless. I do not have a GG, prefer being single so I do not know how to approach her on any CD/MTF issues, but honesty is the best way and remember communication is something GG say some guys lack hence relationship breakup. Believe me, I know this point of view is ery important to GG.