I was at the payless shoe store today , and as I walked in I walked towards the womens size11+ area. As I aproached the area a guy 5'6" slim mustache, in levis and light jacket was bent over looking both ways then picking up a pair of heels then quickly put them back as I walked past..I continued past him down to mens size10 at the other end of that isle. I watched as he continued to look and then I walked back past him again and went towards the door. I wanted to look at some shoes but didn't want to scare the guy away... The sales girl said have a nice day. I was afraid to talk to him about looking at shoes, cause he might have been looking for someone, (But I kinda doubt it) because he seemed nervous enough. I wanted to talk to him very badly, but again, I am just getting to where I feel okay to go out dressed.(I wasnt dressed enfemme). Can anyone tell me how this should be handled. ? I really wish I could have talked to him...(Note, he walked out just as I was leaving and he walked to his construction truck.) Dam I wish I would have had some idea as to how to have aproached him. I so do want to meet someone in my area that dresses, for conversation and chats.....I will thank you for your responses here, now...Thank-you all.......Drew (Far western Burbs of Chicago)