Hello everybody!
Well my SO is finally back in the states and unfortunately it seems like we have made absolutely no progress since I first told her in november. As some of you know, I sew a lot and even taking her to Jo-Anns seemed to push her past her limit. Unfortunately event though she hasn't really made any progress, during her three weeks outside the states I have sewn and purchased a decent amount of clothes (ebay and walmart sales racks mostly) and have even sewn an entire new set of bedding which I have always wanted (very very pink ). I even told my roomate and he has started to adjust to the new situation, I have been very considerate to him and he has actually been very very supportive.
I just don't know what to do about my SO, I mean it seems like everyone is trying to adjust and help except for her, she just dosent seem like she is trying (I mean it's not my place to judge, but that is how it feels). I just hate feeling like I have to hide everything because if she sees it she will get too upset, it makes me feel like what I am doing is wrong or somehow perverse. I know I need to be understanding but I hate having to hide it from her and to feel like I have to split my time between her and just being girly in the slightest, it really isn't fair to either of us. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to help her to actually start to work on it without being forceful? Any suggestions would be appreciated, thanks again!