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    Although my wife knows of my cross-dressing and disapproves, I neither try too hard to hide my clothes from her, but, I also do not toss them around. Actually, it is kind of becoming more of an issue for me than trying to secret it away from her. I'm running out of storage room. Just his week I've received already or they're in transit: two black/white two color Dixie Belle slips (being discontinued on ShopNational.com, a black pull on open bottom girdle, two packages of two white Dixie Belle panties, one white long line bra. one really cute lacy white bra and one pink Breezie's bra. If my wife ever realized how many feminine garments I have, she'd kill me!

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    I hide my things in the attic. While I concur with those who say in the best of circumstances do not hide your activities from your wife, I have been happily married for over 35 years. My wife knows about my activity but does not approve. We have adopted a sort of "don't ask, don't tell" policy. It is not what I prefer because I hate sneaking around. Nonetheless, sometimes it's the only option if you love your wife and want to stay married.

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    My wife knows so hiding clothes and accessories is a non issue with her. The kids however have no idea and I don't want to share with them. I share a closet with Ann so hanging my outfits in plain sight is no problem. I tend to dress a little sexy so someone may someday think Ann's a wild one. My lingerie is all in a drawer and again if anyone were to examine it they would wonder why someone would wear such ****ty undergarments. The only thing I keep locked away are my shoes, breaks my heart, I would love to have a closet full of shoes, and my wigs. If Ann and I had the same shoe size they would be in plain sight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Noreenw View Post
    While I concur with those who say in the best of circumstances do not hide your activities from your wife, I have been happily married for over 35 years.
    But, your situation is different. You are keeping your stuff out of sight per a tacit agreement you have with your wife. She knows! It may not be the best arrangement, but if it works for you both, then there are no issues.
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    Find an old dirty box big enough to take a smaller plastic box. Cover the top of the plastic box with old porn magazines, an old dirty rag and old beer bottles, label this box "Mans stuff keep out" and put it in the garage. Most women do not like porn and old beer bottles so they will stay clear....till the curious take a peek but the rag may be just enough to put them off.

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    I'm recovering from a recent purge so right now I have a couple of items in my basement. Would love to come out to my wife so that I wouldn't have to hide my stuff anymore (hopefully).

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    I keep my panties in my underwear/sock drawer. They are not hidden in the least. I have dividers between panties/boxers/socks. I keep other things in various places throughout my room, like pants drawer at the bottom, in a seasonal duffle bag, NY has extreme temps so I keep summer clothes in a bag in my closet during the winter. Then my favorite place of all, and one I find really clever, is tucked in the bottom sheet of my bed. The elastic holds it in and I tuck them in the sides facing the wall

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    I used to hide my clothes in a brief case, between the mattress, in the pillow case and in socks in a drawer.
    I live w/ my folks now, I got caught a few times and got the talk that these are girls undies and those are for guys and you have to wear guys...I hang my skirts, pants, capris and misses workout gear in the same space as my guy gear, I'm sure my mom has seen me in a skirt or two and didn't blink an eye. She used to question me about capri pants since most don't have pockets and I wear them like most of girls do-which is tight usually requires a thong!

    Keeping it in the open for the last 6 years has lead to no problems one time I had on boyshorts w/ the picot trim waistband she says you need new underwear those are falling apart . I think she has accepted the fact that I will wear what is comfortable for me. No worries about her stealing my jeans or cocktail dresses they are too small for her to get into.

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    i live alone so they're all over the place xP

    but I do have a hanging closet that houses my outfits & compresses small enough to fit in a large suitcase
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    In the loft, so I don't have to worry about My girlfriend or my sons finding them. My girlfriend knows I crossdress but thinks I only dress around her place, within the last year she's gone off the idea. So I dress at my house but she doesn't know.

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    I hide my items under my bed, i have drawers on each side of the bed and there is about 8 inches of space left in the middle that i put my boxes in. so all i need to do is take the drawer of the drawer glides and my stuff is right there

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    I officially deplore the idea of hiding things from one's spouse; that said, I've used just about all the tricks in the book. I've even just put my panties in with the regular underwear--folded just right, white cotton briefs look much the same regardless of gender. In general, it's good to go either with a strategy of putting clothes someplace that seems so odd that no one would think of it as a storage place, or having them so near that they're more or less in plain sight. The unusual suitcase or briefcase will eventually get searched, the box of tax records from 1992 probably won't.

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    I live in an old 1926 home and in an my office there are many book shelves. But in the corner the last book shelf starts at three feet up and below that there used to be an old cast iron raditor in there. There is a false screen door that is removed and to the left of that there is a huge vertical shaft that runs parallel to the book case. I have two big plastic containers in there that mount on top of each other. Works great. Then also in my room I collect Playboys and have all these magazine cases that there is plenty of room in each of them to hide a dress or several pair of hose or a skirt. Then in my garage I have a travel hard sided golf case under the stairwell that is full of several gym bags of clothes. Then in my sports closet in garage I have a garment bag next to the wall with 9 dresses in it then closely packed in all my jackets and jogging outfits so can't be detected. But I am running out of room. Probably have to do a nice spring cleaning inventory and get rid of some stuff. If I ever pass on they find the logical and easy items but the items in my wall they will never be detected.

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    Most of my stuff is in boxes in a storage locker. I built a shelving system so i can get to individual boxes easily. I also have a canvas shoe hanging rack, a small dresser and a closet on wheels in there.

    Most of the rest of my stuff is in boxes in my office, either high on the closet shelves or in cabinets. I also have some gowns in plastic dress protectors hanging in the closet, and some coats in plain site in the closet, all in my office, which is messy enough that she rarely enters.

    The only unusual places are: (1) inside a CRT monitor box that doubles as a side table, and (2) behind the books in my book shelf.

    Quote Originally Posted by Vir Novum View Post
    No! Bad idea! The more different places you hide stuff in, the more likely one of those hiding places will be discovered!
    The up side is that you don't lose your whole stash if one hiding place is discovered.
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    After 30 years of marriage I know one or two things for sure. If you try to keep a secret you are doomed to failure or else so totally stressed out you will not be able to function. Fact 2 is if you lie, it will catch up with you. If your better half finds your stash she may just assume you have a girlfriend, which puts the trust level at minus umpteenthousand. I have a spareroom which my wife is free to come and go as she likes. My closet and drawers look like a friggin store because I have a problem walking away from a good deal on a dress or shoes. It's great to be honest.

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    i hide my clothes in the bottom draw underneath some of my male clothes.
    I'm just a simple someone trying to figure life out.

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    i live with my family so it's hard to hide my stuff. it's mainly in boxes in my closet. fortunately no one touched them yet. and i can't buy any more clothes cause I don't have more space to hide them. too bad

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tania_aCrossdresser View Post
    Find an old dirty box big enough to take a smaller plastic box. Cover the top of the plastic box with old porn magazines, an old dirty rag and old beer bottles, label this box "Mans stuff keep out" and put it in the garage. Most women do not like porn and old beer bottles so they will stay clear....till the curious take a peek but the rag may be just enough to put them off.
    I don't have to hide my feminine clothes, but those old porn maginines, dirty rags and beer bottles would get me in trouble! So I hide them in my lingerie drawer under my nice clean bras, panties, and slipps. lol

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    My wife "hides" my hanging clothes by hanging them with her clothes on her side of the closet. Another small grouping is in a garment bag at the back of my side of the closet, and my shoes are in my male shoe boxes in plain sight under my regular shoes. My pantie collection is in my regular drawer since that's what I wear every day. The only thing we actually "hide" are my forms which are behind a pile of sweaters on a deep top shelf of my closet, just right for reaching in heels

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    Loft for me - as another member has stated, the SO doesn't like heights or dark places that could contain spiders and cobwebs......so that's the shoes and blouse hidden - however, i borrow her skirts and tights and petticoats and underwear - wish i had guts to come out

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    I hide mine by hanging them in our walk in closet right next to my man clothes. I also have a lingerie drawer and two other drawers in the dresser. It's a good thing my wife and I are different sizes!

    Funny, it seems that my female clothing takes up much more space than my male clothing......

    I have ran out of closet space for shoes...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jilmac View Post
    I had two spouses who knew of my dressing but disapproved so naturally my only option was to hide my clothes. I usually chose the basement because neither spouse was particularly fond of going into the basement, however my kids didn't have a problem with it. That being said, I had false panels on the basement ceiling which led to cubbyholes where I could stash a multitude of boxes containing a multitude of female attire. I even kept cedar shavings above the ceiling to keep the basement vermin away and keep my clothes smelling fresh.
    Ah, that reminds me when I was a young lad of about 13 of "how did I hide my Playboy magazines".
    Here were some hiding places:
    1. The furnace in the basement was on some cement blocks. I found a loose block, and so I was able to hide my stash under the furnace.
    2. There was a finished room in the basement with ceiling tiles over the joists. Over a wall there was a workbench in an unfinished section of the basement. I was able to tie fishing line around each magazine and throw the magazines into the space above the ceiling tiles from the unfinished area of the basement over that wall. I was able to pull on the lines to retrieve the magazines.

    None of my magazines were discovered, unlike one of my brothers who hid his girly magazines between the mattress and box springs of his bed.

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