What is wrong with cross dressing? Why has society disapproved? What is it about the cross dressing itself (not the lying, deceit, hiding, etc.) that threatens one-on-one relationships and tears apart families? How have we allowed clothing choices to become so powerful?

I'm probably asking the wrong crowd here . I'm interested in hearing everyone's view on this, but I am particularly interested in hearing from our Loved Ones who have struggled with this issue.