It seems to me, over the years I've been here..... from most of the posts, that getting your wives or girl friends to accept and participate in their crossdressing is the ultimate goal? Right? The holy grail!! And I concur with the acceptance but personally, I really do not want my wife participating, at all! No way!! Yes, it would be wonderful if she accepted it but I don't want her help. After 35 years of marriage, I just want something that is my own, that is not a community project. Something that doesn't require her approval or comment on. Maybe it's just me but I get enough of "you are going to wear that?" in male mode. I love picking out my fashions and accessories and makeup and hair and it just seems to me that having someone else "help" would take all that away! Or greatly reduce the enjoyment I get.... Not to mention my wife does not have the best taste in women's clothing... lol (ps, don't tell her that..) Not saying I do but our styles are totally different...
And this isn't "sour grapes" either... "My wife won't accept or help me so I don't want her help!!!" Nope.... Not at all!! So, does anyone else feel this way or am I just odd?? Odder.... Oddish....