Becoming more active in the CD community has opened my eyes to so many incredible people... but at the same time left me wondering, how other human beings can be so willingly cruel to one another...
I have to wonder, when I see announcers on TV mocking transgendered individuals, or making fun of those who cross-dress... are they truly comprehending the hurt that they're subscribing to?
Even more so, I'm sure everyone here has an example (or more than one) of a love one, someone truly close to you, who you've let down your guard to about being CD/TG and who's taken that information only to hurt you in a way that you can't even describe.
Maybe this is just a rant, but how can human beings do this to one another? How can you willingly hurt someone so badly, simply because they're different?
An evolutionary biologist friend of mine once told me that its because the parts of our brain that control anger and emotion are 10 times closer to our nervous cortex that the parts of our brain that control love and forgiveness. That's why you hurt first, and forgive later.
If that's so, then I promise to always tell my son that to willingly hurt another person makes you less than human. Obeying laws and following rules may make you an adult, but to truly be a man, or a woman, or a human being; you should never willingly choose to hurt someone else. That kind of pain is only passed on to someone else and thus you've planted the seeds of hatred once again.
*sigh* Just a rant... just a rant...
~b
"Even a hunter cannot kill a bird which flies to him for refuge."
Chiune Sugihara