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    joanne joanne anderson's Avatar
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    Why do we

    [SIZE="3"] Last night my wife and I were having a talk about crossdressing, my wife knows about my dressing and is accepting of my need and love for dressing but a question came up from her that on several occassions I thought I had satisfactorily answered but it seems not'
    The question that she has trouble with is " Why do we want to wear female bras and panties etc while dressed, if no one is going to see them. "
    Maybe some of you girls can give me some help here, I have said that when I dress I want in all possible ways wear the garments of the female sex and so that I can be in my mind, just for a day or how long a " WOMAN "



    LOL Joanne
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    I mostly only wear panties under my regular guy clothes. But I would like to do more (dresses, heels, makeup, etc.) but just don't have the time or opportunity. For me, it like this... I prefer hard rock/metal over country music, and I prefer dresses over pants.
    It's just what I like, and has nothing to do with what anyone else sees or thinks.

    J

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    Oooo! I GOT this one, Joanne!

    I wear tite ladies panties to hold my TUCK PROPERLY! NO mens undies work! Not even a jock strap!

    I wear a bra to hold up my forms! When I didn't, they ended up at my WAIST!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    I do it because otherwise I will not feel truly feminine at all.

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    I do it because it feels natural to me, when I wear mens undergarments it feels wrong in so many ways.
    when in doubt, dress

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    I wear a bra to hold my breast forms and womens panties to tuck and complete the change from male to female.

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    Anything worth doing is worth doing right.No woman would think twice about putting on her under garments,so when I'm getting ready these items are second nature to me.How else can I enjoy being "Feminin" in mind and body with out all the trappings.It helps the body match the mind and lets not forget its fun and feels good.Also when worn under male clothing it is the taboo and the thrill of it lest you get caught.On a more philosophical side why do we do what we do,what causes a male to want to imulate a female? Just my slant on the subject,I hope it helped but I do tend to get long winded at times.
    Have a nice day and keep smilling.Bye-Bye.

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    If you're baking a cake you don't leave out the flour just because nobody sees it.

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    I think of it as a matter of complete expression. My therapist calls it "congruence." Either way it's about fully expressing the way I feel. As far as wearing items that can't be seen, the same question could be asked of GGs who often wear the same underwear--pretty things--that only they know that they are wearing. Or for men, fancy, colorful, funny boxers that no one else may ever see. Why wear them? I wear such things because it's fun, because I like the look and the feel, and because they are part of the outfit.
    warmly, Linnea

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    Completing the package.

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    Because I can't stop (and I wouldn't want to either).

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    Why do I wear female undies if no one is going to see them? I wear them for me, not for other people. That's why.
    [SIZE="3"][/SIZE]Life is what happens while you're making other plans

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    Its partly of the ritual of getting dressed and partly the feeling of the forms, the bra encircling and holding me in, the feeling of hose on freshly shaved legs, getting made up, etc... all that which perhaps GGs tire of or take for granted.

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