Last week I had a customer of mine come for some new graphics I had designed for her. We have talked on many occasion and she always seemed pleasent and knew what she wanted. I showed her what I had - just like before only updated a little. She said it looked good and would send a worker by to pick it up at the end of the week. Well the worker picked it up but she had forgotten to give him a check for payment and called to say that she would be in later. This is a small town, every body knows everybody and as I was dealing with another long time customer and friend she comes in to pay me. She thanked me for the timely service and said she would need some additional work done later in the month. After she left my friend said (in vary respectful way) I went to school with him ! Really I said. Yep! he's now a she and a good one at that! I was stunned
We talked for a while - none of my friends outside of my one employee Knows of "Debbie" That makes two fully transitioned people I know in this town that are sucessfull business owners. I soooo wanted to talk to her but I think if it were me I wouldn't want to be reminded of the past and am not sure if that is a 'happening conversation.
This woman presented her self in the most accepting way. The trade she is in is a male dominated trade and she was derssed in jeans, sweater and walking shoes. Her hair was styled and diden't appear to be a wig. The only thing that I had noticed from even when I first met her was her voice sounded like a smokers voice or something -a little low and the femm renascence of it was missing.
I would really like to talk to this woman but am not sure if I should or what would be proper.---any suggestions?