What is your ultimate goal with crossdressing? Many just want to look nice and go out or just use it as a release in one way or the other (psychological or physical). Mine was to amalgamate all of my feelings, which I've done. I wonder sometimes what goals others have in connection with CDing however.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
I just want to be one of the girls. I want to be able to go out and be the woman I would have been if I had been born a woman.
Not sure I have a "goal" with all of this honestly... or at least I've never really pondered it. I'm in the camp of "I don't think I *am* a woman (inside), but I would *like* to be one"... so that puts me in the woman admiring camp, not honestly TS, but definitely TG in plenty of aspects. As far as the CD goes, it's just an outlet for me, just makes me feel good ... i love the "hug" of the forms/bra and all the rest and I do plenty of underdressing (bottom half) on a daily basis. I am a "basement dresser" when at home as my wife knows, but does not 100% *approve* and mainly the point is to keep it from her and the kids. I don't go "out" except an odd car ride here or there. Because of these last two items, I definitely want to dress more... but I'm not sure to what end... except spending more time feeling good. I work long hours at my job and they are stressful ones... so this is a way to escape all of that even temporarily.
VS Fan
I am a closet dresser. I will never have the make-up or dressing skills to go out in public. My goal is to continue with trying on different clothing and some make-up. Trying to look more fem then I look now. I will continue to underdress during times when it cannot be detected.
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Ditto for me except my Wife is 100% accepting!!
My goal is to go out in public totally en femme, but I don't know if that will happen. Oh, I know there will be times I'll be outdoors as a girl, but probably not with people other than my SO around. She wants us to start out by just driving around town in the car with me dressed, and I'm all for that, but she seems to think I could pull it off at night in dimly lit surroundings. Might get there some day. I'm hoping.
[SIZE="3"][/SIZE]Life is what happens while you're making other plans
I don't know taht I really have a goal either. My lifes dream would be to be able to dress how I feel whenever I wanted, At least in my own home. I am not sure that will ever happen, But I guess one can dream.
my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress
"Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"
Same story here!
I am a closet dresser and very infrequently at the moment my wife is okay with me wanting to dress and buys me lingerie but she doesn't suggest or help me, would like to get her to participate more.
I used to go out dressed but haven't been out for awhile I retire in a few years ,then I want to spend a lot more time as Julie when I don't have to worry
about my career
I don't really have any goals I'm striving for anymore. Because of my wife's encouragement I've done most of the realistic things I've ever dreamed about doing while dressed and then some.
My other dream was to have all the important people in my life being OK with me, knowing that I enjoy crossdressing on occasion. That has been met, as most of my family and most of the important people to me at work know and are OK.
So I am content. Now, if I had some extra money to get those shoes I like ........!
Joni
"Yes, to dance beneath the diamond sky with one hand waving free" Bob Dylan
My goal is simple -a way of expressing my feminine side so I can appreciate my masculine side better.I would love to make a passable female -and with practice its possible.
I think my goal is to be the best girl I can be... Ultimately the result is just a physical release, if you get my meaning...What is your ultimate goal with crossdressing? Many just want to look nice and go out or just use it as a release in one way or the other (psychological or physical). Mine was to amalgamate all of my feelings, which I've done. I wonder sometimes what goals others have in connection with CDing however.
Mine is the one goal I have had since I discovered that Hormones would feminize even the machoist male to a good degree. I have a therapist now and have begun the process finally.
[SIZE="3"]"I can't talk girl talk when there is a guy inside my head." Gracie Lou Freebush[/SIZE]
Is this all that's left of my life before me. Straight Jacket Memories and Seditive Highs! No Happy Ending like they always Promised...There's got to be something left for me... And I Turn my Head and Stare into the Eyes of a Stranger.
To those of you who consider yourselves to be "Cat People" I apologize in advance for I am not.
My goal is to just feel feminine and let my inner woman come out to feel pretty, feel curvy and sexy, and feel all of the soft pleasures that women get to feel that it is frowned on for men to experience. I guess I feel that I am split in my gender and through dressing I can experience the world both ways.
My goals haven't changed much since I first started dressing 4 years ago. I know that I wanted to improve my presentation and most importantly, I wanted to go out in the real world and do all the things that I enjoyed doing as a guy. So far I have been reaching and exceeding that last goal. I have enough (not really) clothes to put together wonderful outfits and I go out whenever I want meeting new people and doing new things all the time. May it never stop!
my only real goal is to feel feminine... i dress because it excites me and puts me in the quite the mood. when i dress up, i dress to be sexy because that's what i like. i have no real urge to travel out anywhere in public.
I would just like to be able to wear skirts and dresses in public all the time
To be me. To wear what I want, and to inspire others to follow suit. To possibly be a catalyst for society to drop the "everyone must look alike" rut.
"I am not altogether on anyone's side as no one is all together on my side"
Tree beard. Lord of the Rings, The Two Towers.
Individuation is my life's goal. To fully explore every different aspect of myself, and then unite them all into the best possible me and fullest personality.
That extends to my girl aspect. I want to continually learn more about it and explore it and have fun with it.
I would say I have achieved my goal,being married to a wonderful and understanding woman who loves boths sides of me,to live a contented and happy family life where Sophie has flourished and other than a wee lottery win lol,my life is sweet
We look to Scotland,for all our Ideas of Civilisation-Voltaire
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A woman who loves to wear beautiful clothes is like a flower.
A man who loves to emulate these women is a special flower-a roseFacebook:Sophie Johnson
Well put. I don't know that I have any more goals myself. I am very happy with my life. I go out pretty frequently. I suppose to meet more wonderful people. But, then a long-time gg friend of mine that recently met Jessica asked if I would have been a bridesmaid at her wedding if she had known then. So I guess, yes, if I really had to set a goal...I suppose I would get all gushy to be a bridesmaid now! :-)I would say I have achieved my goal,being married to a wonderful and understanding woman who loves boths sides of me,to live a contented and happy family life where Sophie has flourished and other than a wee lottery win lol,my life is sweet
My goal is actually quite simple, I just want to be myself, I want to move towards expressing myself just as I feel that I am inside,no more, no less. I get closer and closer to that each day.
What stop do I get off at? Hmmm...
Simply to be as feminine as I can be
Hi Denise!
I really never thought about it. I guess that I don't have a goal, so to speak.
To me, having a goal means needing to achieve something. I have nothing to achieve. I am me and that is all that I need to be.
I know that I am blessed by having Jean in my life. She knows that wearing these clothes is a part of who and what I am.
I think that being able to be "me", wearing women's clothes all the time, going out if I want to, and being alive to do this, is or was the goal.
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