I'm in my 40's but I've to admit that in my mind, I'm still emulating feminine figures who are in their 20's ( or girls I knew when I was 20-odd but we all have now aged). In other words, I still model my gestures, antics and style on 20 something women.
In general, I find women in their 40's or older lacking in femininity to the extend that I don't want to be like them.
However, there must be some feminine and graceful women who are in their 40's or older and are worthwhile for us to emulate.
Can you name a few ? Preferably celebrities with videos on Youtube.