I'm just curious. How many of us out there have been up front about their cross dressing with their SO/Wife and after the initial acceptance and/or involvement they they changed their mind and want nothing to do with it?
I am in a marriage where my wife was totally accepting and actively involved in my cross dressing and then changed her mind on the subject. I am not interested in talking about why or what I can do to change her back right now, I am just curious to see If I am the only one?
I have read some SO"s make comments like "If I knew about his CDing before we were married I don't think I would have married him".
I feel the same way, but with a little more contempt because ,at least in my case, it is not enough of an issue to divorce over but it is annoying. Even if I did decide that it was enough to divorce over, (being 100% closeted) I would be made out to be a sick pervert who wants to leave his wife because of his cross dressing desires. The fact that I was honest and up front about it would be minimized within the discussion about the cross dressing.
When an SO leaves a cross dresser because of the "cross dressing" the SO is often justified in the eyes of their family and friends because of it!
Sorry I guess I went on a little too much, I don't mean this in any way to offend anyone and if that happened I am sorry.
I am curious to hear your comments.
thank you