A little back story, I am a 29 non passable crossdresser from the Twin Cities MN. My wife knows I dress and is very supportive, she buys me cloths, lets me dress for the most part (we have a 1 yr old baby boy, she doesn't want She has know about my dressing since almost the beginning of our relationship. I never have went out fully dressed because I don't pass as a women but I do go out dressed in panties all the time. This Friday my wife and I are going to Minneapolis for happy hour, and I would like to wear my knee high boots out on the town. Since it is MN I will have jeans on and you really don't see the boots at all except for the click clack they make when I walk on tile. So how do I ask my wife if I can wear them, do I;
1. Ask her before we go out early in the week so she can think about it and get back to me?
2. Do I ask her right before we go out so she has to make a quick decision?
3. Do I not even ask and let her be surprised when she hears the click clack of my heals?
Or do you have a better idea of how I should bring this up to her?
Thanks for the help girls,
Shawna