Here's something I've been wondering about for a while. I'm sure everyone has filled out a job application before. Most have that one little line that asks for aliases. Well, for those of us that are out, and everyone knows, I'm sure you could put your female name there, and even explain if asked in an interview.
This brings up getting said interview. We all know that almost all employers consider themselves an EEOC. But, when reviewing apps, we are all too painfully aware that there are also those that will dismiss "that" application, though you'd never prove that was the reason. So, if you're looking at a dream job, do you put your name in that slot, or leave it blank? Some of us even have State ID's with our femme picture on it, so if there is a background check after an interview...it's still going to come up, and you could be accused of not disclosing all personal information and still lose said dream job opportunity.
So, let's say you left your 'alias' line blank, and you have no legal picture ID's. You get your interview, a job offer and you start job. Let's say somewhere down the road you get out more in the world, and want to come out to everyone needed. Do you now go to HR and ask to update your file. You explain to HR that you are TG/CD. Of coarse, they can't fire you because of this...but there is always the question of undisclosed information when you interviewed, and why did you lie at that time.
Of coarse, there is then the plan of working each and every day, not saying anything, and carrying on never letting the two worlds collide. But...if you are a person that gets out often, and near home, there is always the risk of someone from work recognizing you. Let's say someone sees you and your SO getting out of your car, and recognize the SO, the car, and examine you closely until they make the connection. They are socially stupid, and run to work and blab...thus putting you in the position of facing work. Again...they can't get rid of you for CDing, but we all know that coorporations have ways of making it look like something else.
Alright, that was a lot to really ask what others have done, or what do you all feel is the best approach?
I'd feel the best is to leave everything open, honest and unquestionable. But, for me this tosses up the question of being looked over in the application stage. I'm on the fence. Thanks!