Thanks for responding Denise. I wasn't meaning to put you on the spot, it's just that I remember your story and I never forgot the post you made when you shared the remorse you felt for having had that huge pendulum swing, before you settled in the middle as the person you are now. I am sorry that your marriage ended it up the way it did.
Katesback expressed perfectly:
There is a difference between a wife not accepting the CDing conceptually and recognizing it as a need but then being utterly overwhelmed when her husband goes into a major pink fog and goes way faster than she can catch up with. I wrote a fairly typical scenario recently describing how a wife must stretch in order to keep up with her husband, and if you are interested in reading this, Rachel Lea, here it is:
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post2426835
Granted the wife in the scenario I constructed is the ideal "accepting" wife, but if there is a divorce because of the CDing, it is because she just can't take all the changes in that quickly and she feels utterly left behind. I know there will be a million little exceptions to my story, but it's the best I can do without writing a tome to take into account all the different possible permutations. I hope you get the idea.