I am not sure how it happened since lately things have been well. I have not dressed in a little while or mentioned the crossdressing. The other night in an argument it came out. My wife thinks less of me now ever since I told her about my dressing. She has been trying to accept it but is having difficulty. I told her I would give it up and throw away all of my clothes but I think the damage is done. She views me in this new light and I am not sure if that is going to change. I do not want to separate or divorce. I love her very much and we have a child just under 1 together. Any advice on how to pull things together? She said she is up for marriage counseling but nothing about sexuality or crossdressing.
...for those with the comments, I know I should have told my wife before we married. I played around with it but didn't accept or acknowledge it myself until recently. I was honest with her as soon as I was honest with myself.