This always comes up. Some of us go out and try to stealth around, some of us go to less likely places to to avoid the masses. Some of us go out for a drive, some of us shop in malls.
For me it is simple. I'm past the point of who might "catch" me, or see me, or suspect I am a man. It doesn't matter to me if they think I am a man, belittle me for trying to be a woman, or otherwise, I simply don't care anymore. Once you have a carefree attitude, and getting caught doesn't matter you never get caught, because fear catches you, not people. I dress to be noticd, not unnoticed, because I simply have no fear anymore. I always wear red lipstick (MAC ruby woo my favorite), red nails or a french manicure, short skirts, 40D breast forms that I adhere (sometimes braless, sometimes not), lace tops sometimes, lots of black eyeliner, and my lgs are always shaved. My wife says when I go out like that I'm in **** mode lol, at first she didn't like it, but now she is fine how I express myself. Lucky there.