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    Question Sit or Stand?

    Since coming out to my spouse about 6 weeks ago, I have been underdressing in panties every day. Over the last week I started sitting to go to the bathroom because it felt odd to stand with women's underwear on. At first I had to remind myself to sit, but after a few days it feels very natural. So I was wondering what other mtf cd/tg folks do and what are your experiences?

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    Well perhaps it's with the passing years but for some time now I have always sat down, at home at least...

    And over last 3 years or so wearing lingerie, particularly girdles amd corselettes it is the only way to use facilities...

    But then I do not go out much in my lingerie, other than to work and facilities are staff only so comfortable using those, always sitting down...

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    If you ever plan to go out in public, plan to sit if you use a women's restroom. At home, whatever works or feels best, your choice.
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    when I'm fully dressed, I sit. If I'm underdressed, I stand

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    I always took it on a case by case basis. Sometimes the restrooms were full and my only option was yon tree. Other times, even if I stood up in the unisex restroom, I always put the seat down as kind of an inside joke.
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    I would like to remind members that the discussion of the actual bodily function is not permitted. Please keep your responses to answering the OP without going into details.
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    I prefer to sit. It is one small way to affirm my feelings of femininity when I am alone (drag/drab). The exception being if I am in a rush or in a rather "nasty" restroom. I began years ago when I first started exploring my femm side, now it is natural, and I don't even think about it.
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    I underdress almost all the time and have done so for many years. For me, sitting is the natural way!! At home or out in the world!
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    somtimes I stand when en-drab, but I always sit when dress, and often when I'm just to tired/lazy to stand

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    i even carry a small spray bottle when at work to keep things clean. sit all the time here.

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    This is one of those things I'd like to keep manly.... its a blessing to stand lol
    Last edited by Nigella; 03-26-2011 at 08:56 AM. Reason: Read my post in this thread about bodily functions :-(

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    In the service and while working through college, I had the task of cleaning the latrine, restroom, call it what you will. Having had that experience, I believe we should always sit. Most men just aren't that good at aiming.

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    Since the beginning of the year I sit at home and stand in a gross bathroom (how convenient). BUT when I do have to stand I kind of hate it. I love shimmying my panties down and doing my business. I like looking at them all bunched up down there as I go.
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    At home I sit about 95% of the time. At work I sit about 50% of the time. The reason for not sitting is time 5%/50% respectively is being in a hurry. For me sitting is the natural way, the way I feel most comfortable.
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    I sit almost 100% of the time at home. I'll never understand why that's "frowned upon" in some circles...

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    Hi April

    I prefer to sit. Sometimes Its great that we can still stand tho some places are well uhuhmm you know...

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    Sit.....unless I need to collect a kidney stone

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    For past 11 years I have been sitting only because I see it as cleaner, and no splashing. I sit in all private venues and stand in all public areas.

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    Except for the occasional use of a "job site jonny" I sit always, at least until about three weeks ago , when I had to learn "the hover". Much too late to change stalls. Had to, HAD to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by toko View Post
    For past 11 years I have been sitting only because I see it as cleaner, and no splashing. I sit in all private venues and stand in all public areas.
    I share the same practices as toko..course if out dressed, then it will be sitting down in the ladies room.

    Reason: Didn't have anything with dressing. My wife, daughter and I had to live in a one room efficiency for 6 months. I had to spend a lot of time studying for an important military advancement exam. So with a small child and lack of privacy to study, I would put the lid down and spend a few hours sitting to study. Yes, it all paid off as I passed. The practice became after moving into a larger place due to bathroom sharing with the wife, it was easier to sit and have conversations, etc. After a while it became embedded as the norm and standing seemed out of place, except in a public restroom or other 'guys' around.. Silly, huh?

    Of course, being dressed, sitting is the only way for me
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    Ive been sitting for years ever since my wife handed me a scuba brush and cleaner then told me It's my turn to clean the toilet

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    I have been sitting for years.
    The only time I stand is if in a mens room that is not to clean, than standing is the
    only safe way to GO.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mary Morgan View Post
    In the service and while working through college, I had the task of cleaning the latrine, restroom, call it what you will. Having had that experience, I believe we should always sit. Most men just aren't that good at aiming.
    I live alone, so I'm in charge of cleaning the bathroom, and I agree. If for no other reason than keeping things more sanitary, sitting is best. I got into that habit decades ago and now it feels weird to to me stand.

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    When we moved into our current house 7 years ago it was brand new and I wanted to keep it as clean as possible so I always sat at home -- nothing to do with dressing. I recently came out to my wife and underdress every day now. We have our own place of business so I know it's clean and sit. Everywhere else I stand -- other people's homes, public restrooms etc.

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    At home it is 100% sit-outside the home it is 50-50

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