There's this guy named Alex, who's in my creative writing class at Uni. I really fancy him.
First off, he's a great match for me: he's in a band, he's a standup comedy junkie (absolutely adores Eddie Izzard), he's a fantastic writer, has an amazing sense of humour (I've never laughed so hard in my life than when I was talking to him). He's nice, intelligent... And he likes to mess with homophobes on trains by wearing nailpolish, so I know he's not a homophobe himself or anything. Oh, and he's British (that's the icing on the cake). And he's REALLY cute, too.
We were talking Thursday after class for about an hour, and getting along great, and he took me to a workshop for the school literary magazine. He's also supposed to be coming to my comedy show tonight (which I'll be leaving for as soon as I post this message).
The problem: as far as I know he's straight (he mentioned ex- girlfriends and such) and I'm pretty sure he's convinced I'm a guy.
So my question is, how should I... like, get him to like me in that particular way? I'm all up for outing myself, since I know he'll be ok with it-- I have no problems with telling people I'm trans-- I just have to find the right time to do it (wouldn't wanna be talking about Indian food or books or something and then say, by the way, I'm actually female. Fancy a shag?). ARGH! I always have such a hellish time meeting people and this guy seems absolutely perfect for me and... I'm frustrated.
Help?
Danka schon!