Hi. I'm brand new to these forums or any forums like this for that matter. I have decided to ask some people who know from past experience a question. So let me start off by saying I have been crossdressing since I was a little kid. I was one boy in a family of predominantly females and that includes cousins and so on. I am not gay or even bi for that matter. I have tried being with a guy and it's just not my cup of tea. Lol. I have tried stopping but eventually just keep coming back to it. Now on to the actual question.
I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. Known her for 7. We are both into fetishy things. We are really being completely honest with each other and telling each other everything. This started after a bad fight where she finally realized that she was in the wrong. Lol. So I have come to the dilemma of do I tell her or not. I have done one or two small things like put on her panties and just be standing there in them when she walks in the room. As a joke but also testing her response. It's usually somewhere along the lines of "Oh god now I can't ever wear those again" in what sounds to me like a serious tone. We are also pretty comfortable with trying new things. I could go on with much more detail and explain all the reasons why I am confused but I won't. I have read the guide on here, and though helpful, I think I need others opinions.
So after a very long-winded jumble of words (I apologize for btw) I get right to it... Do I tell her or not? Please be specific with your answer... I am wracking my brain about this.