Hi Reine. This was simple. I didn't make it to the ATM and was running late. Actually most guys like to pay...makes it a date in their mind. But I'll step up if need be. And I do plan to treat him to a nice lunch soon.
Miss Rebecca, you are quite the hater here. You don't know everything thing about me and certainly don't know my biology. What if I was intersex? What if I was XXY? What if I had strong female features before transition? You show a lack of even basic understanding of a classic Harry Benjamin transsexual. Using one of my analogies, according to you all amputees should be denied lifelike limbs so they aren't running around "deceiving" people.
Yes I DID connect with him as a friend and maybe someday as a lover...
And saying that you have a right to tell it like you see it while telling another member to literally shut up is some serious hypocrisy...
Thanks to everyone for the support in trying to explain things, I was rather stunned at this unprovoked attack.