Within the last few months my wife has accepted my corssdressing to the point she lets me go out to meetings, shopping and to see cd friends. We made the leap just this week of her being able to hang out with me fully dressed at our house. The one thing that will Not do yet is call me by my female name and she still sticks to purely male and female on gender. For instance she won't refer to me as she and my other cd friends are called he etc. Any ideas on how I can bring her around to refer to us as she, at least in fem mode, and call me by my female name at least when I am dressed??