Staci, I'm quoting you, but my remarks are addressed to everyone else in this thread who feels the same as you, which I'm afraid is the majority:
I visited some of the other blogs the original blogger links to. Another blogger, also someone who no longer wishes to CD, identifies as a sex addict. For him, the dressing is a trigger.
I'm amazed that so many people in this thread can't see beyond their own situations and cannot acknowledge there are some people who dress purely for fetish and not ID, and furthermore for them it has become so compulsive that it impacts the rest of their lives negatively, such as preventing them to do their jobs as effectively as they might or making it difficult for them to have a healthy sexual and emotional relationship with a partner. I'm also shaking my head over our nay-sayers' unwillingness to even recognize the possibility of an addiction or a compulsion! I mean, there is such a thing as sexual addiction or even shopping compulsions and there are even 12-step groups for it! Is it such a stretch to imagine that some sex addicts might actually be triggered by crossdressing?
I know there is a bias in our society against addicts/compulsives, but I'm shocked that so many other CDers aren't more understanding than they are, given the difficulties they themselves face with people who are biased against the CDing. This is as inane as a person who suffers from racial prejudice, who in turn is racially prejudiced against others.
So, I'm beginning to wonder if it might not be a case of the "lady who doth protest too much" for some CDers here, in other words, the CDing for them might be more a non-gender-ID compulsion than they wish to admit, but they're not worried about it because they haven't reached a place in their lives where it prevents them from holding down a job of having a healthy relationship with a partner? Or perhaps they have reached that place but they're not willing to admit it?
Honestly, I am angered at many of the responses in this thread, and this is because in my past, I have struggled with an addiction. I am NOT tolerant of others who make fun of this or who refuse to admit that it is a serious and sometimes life-threatening issue.
EDIT And I am NOT referring to the TSs who need to give up everything in order to live as the woman they are. This is an entirely different matter.