Last night the wife and I got a room in Whittier. Just what we needed. A place to dress up and be with my wife. Cute, with a spa, shower, comfy bed, and just US. Well, small talk became bigger talk and she said because she had not participated in these forums, her membership was removed. I told her to ask me and I would have walked her thru it. Anyhow, she will get another membership soon. What led up to this whole conversation was she has this idea that crossdressers are gay. I told her NO. I told her she had to come into these forums and participate, ask questions, ask other GG's, and to participate in the GG only forums to get a broader spectrum of the whole CD world which includes me. She has this worry that I will become to like men rather than stay with her. I told her she was so wrong. I told her there are many men like me who are straight, and have loving, supportive wives, and started out just as similar as I did. I mentioned to her that there are other CD's who like men, but that's not me. It all came up last night in the hotel room because I was wearing her cute toe ring she had took off about a year ago because it hurt her toe. Told her I had it since and have worn it regularly. That's what set off the question if I was gay. True as it may be that when I first met her I was just into pantyhose, panties, sexy shoes, and dresses. Now being with her, I has blossomed into wearing makeup, wigs, and accessories. To me, there is no way I can be with a man. I myself can not get into that only because I know, it does not interest me. We sat up for a while, talked, smoked, and got into details of it and what I like about it. Again, already been discussed with her a while back. But I think she just needs to be assured I have no plans on going under the knife, or taking hormones. Just clean CD'ing and thats all. She has told me before she will have me dress up and go to a club designed for the benefit of us CD'ers. All morning I was texting her that I was not gay. She laughed after and said she believed me. It may come up again. I'm sure it will. But so far my actions have spoke for themselves. I'm not gay, nor do I plan on being such. I'm ready to answer her question again if it pops up and it will be the same thing again, NO.