Dear Forum,
Me and my ex-wife have been divorced now for 3 years. Crossdressing and all the aspects that go along with the crossdressing played a huge role in us getting divorced. She did not understand it, nor did she want to understand it. We have a young child together, he was 3 at the time and just turned 7. We have 65 to 35 parenting time arrangement. I let her use my crossdressing against me the first time around because I was ashamed of it and did not want anyone else to know my secret that I had been hiding my entire life. Well over the last 3 years I have learned and dealt with my crossdressing and have decided that it really is not what I made it out to be. I have a supporting GF now, I have told friends and they have reacted very positively. I guess I am more comfortable now then I was then. This site and all you gurls have helped as well. I recently made a decision to go back to the Friend of the Court and try to get more parenting time with my son. When my ex-wife was notified she immediately threatened to use my crossdressing against me again. Like I said above I am not going to let her use that against me or scare me away from doing the right thing.
Have any of you gurls been in a similiar situation? If so how did it come out? How did you handle it? I would love to hear from all of you.
trisha simone