I'm not sure if 'forced' is the correct word but let's see where this idea goes.
It's been said that many people don't know how to 'let go' sexually and truly enjoy intense sexual pleasure and release. Many women 'hold back' and experience only a small amount of pleasure because they are not truly in tune with their own bodies and are apprehensive and afraid of being 'out of control' of their sexual response.
It would seem that many men are as well. Other men only know how to 'get theirs' and are not capable of satisfying their SOs.
Now it's also been said that only a woman truly knows how to make love to a woman and only a man knows how to truly make love to a man. After all, we usually know how our bodies work and what excites us. I'm not sure how the man think works, but I DO know what gives ME satisfaction as a man and I try to be both attentive and receptive to my SOs needs as a woman.
My fantasy, if you could call it one, would be to be enfemme and have my SO seduce me and make love to me as she would want to be made love to by another woman (a nice CD lesbian fantasy?). Teach me, if you will as if I were a woman who truly needed to be made to 'let go' and enjoy all the nuances of every little touch, every kiss, every stroke. 'Force' me I suppose, to totally abandon myself to the pure joy of sexual release with another woman.
Then, make love to me enfemme, as if she were a man wanting to please his woman.
So here is the inexperienced woman, learning about herself from a lesbian lover and who is then made love to by a 'man' as a woman would like to be made love to by a man. MMmmmmmm.......Kinky!
No restrictions, no boundaries as long as the loving is done completely, with passion, consideration and love. In THAT situation, I could give as well as receive, with total abandon.
Underdressed I suppose.
All kinds of interesting (and fun) possibilities here.