I've done a lot of thinking about this recently. Gays, lesbians, and bisexuals are all terms that deal with sexual preference whereas transgender has nothing to do with sexual preference. I can see why we have have been lumped in because it is an alternative lifestyle but I think thats why so many people naturally assume we are gay. If GLB has homosexual activity involved, then T must also. I think the term is working against us but I don't see any way to change it.