First of all I would like to say that it is because of threads like this one that I find this forum is such a great place.
I think we should be grateful to the LBG movement for opening the way for us even though we trail anywhere between 10 and 15 years in the general level of acceptance. I my particular case if my wife were to accept LBG people, then she might accept me. She is one of those who find it impossible to comprehend that crossdressing and sexual orientation are unrelated.