I used to dance Nothern Soul, Rock & Role, Disco Break Dance, whatever was around. I would put the time in and learn the moves and I loved it. Did't matter to me how I was dressed I just love dancing. I do dance very differently when dressed, I used to practice for hours to make sure all of the subtle little mannerisms were right, in a way it was and is just the same as learning any new dance style, these days I obviously dance a lot less, but I still have no worries about who might be watching or judging I just tune in to the music and dance the same as when I was 15, it's just less energetic. Let your self go girls.