Ladies, I would appreaciate the help.

[ClaireB]

So, I'm an 18 year old cd who hasn't dressed in months. I'm feeling the urge to but am finding it very hard to dress. You see, I live in a small apartment with three other guys. (Working for the summer) And any way, none of the guys are gay, cd's or would accept it. I'm looking to dress on my days off, because they usually work when I have the day off. Any suggestions on how I can dress without them knowing. I also don't have any clothes available. Help what can I do, or what should I do.

P.S. I'm living in the Sandusky Ohio area

[Jamie Burton]

Head down to Walmart and buy some casual fit straight leg jeans, that way you'll always have a pair of womens' pants on. Some tank tops and t-shirts can be fairly gender neutral and only you'd know that they were purchased in the girls areas.

[Karren H]

Your working at Cedar Point for the summer ?? How cool!! Well on your salary I'd go to thrift stores and goodwill. Also try garage and estate sales on Saturday! So what do you do at CP?

[Cynthia Anne]

Dress on your day off! EVERY DAY WEAR PANTIES! Best is MOVE! or Look at my signature!

[cd_in_de]

I have been in that situation. What I did was get girly clothes that could barely pass for men's. When asked if they were men's or women's, i would always say men's.

[VioletJourney]

Well if you have no other options you can always rent a storage locker to store your clothes and dress in.

[Princess Chantal]

Head down to Walmart and buy some casual fit straight leg jeans, that way you'll always have a pair of womens' pants on. Some tank tops and t-shirts can be fairly gender neutral and only you'd know that they were purchased in the girls areas.

Sounds like clothing that would turn me off from crossdressing quite quickly, especially when I was that young. I had roommates in the early days of my crossdressing. What I did was underdress with hose/stockings, panties and bras when out about the house. Then once I got into my room or had privacy, slip into a dress and slide on some heels

[Miranda09]

Claire, I think the simplest thing to do is underdress, maybe just panties for now or something gender neutral,, to satisfy your urge, then start planning to get your own place. If you're living with 3 other guys, forget the privacy, even if you have your own room. It may take a while, but this may give you incentive to get your own pad, then have some fun, discretely. Just my 2 cents worth.

[Natalie D]

I would definitely buy some panties to start with. You can wear them every day and start to add more clothes for your days off when you're alone. If the urge is there you'll find a way

[docrobbysherry]

I'm sorry, Claire. I'll tell U the same thing I tell my kids; there R NO SHORTCUTS!

Work hard in school. Concentrate on your chosen profession. Become successful. Then, EVERYTHING u want out of life will be available to u! Put your dressing, drugs, booze, porn, TV, gaming, texting, online time, and every other distraction in your rear view mirror for now!

U will have PLENTY of time and $$ to explore and enjoy them later!

[ameliabee]

I'm going to assume you have your own room, yeah?

Thrift stores and ebay, hon'.

Maybe try and find a local who's supportive and doesn't mind you coming over and borrowing living space for changing and storage?

[April Renee]

QUOTE cd_in_de: I have been in that situation. What I did was get girly clothes that could barely pass for men's. When asked if they were men's or women's, i would always say men's.
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"When asked"...People might be stupid but they can tell, hence the questioning. I'm not trying to call anyone out, but people do notice and usually know sumpthinjusaintright.
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Claire, I wish you all the luck in your journey. Use this forum as a tool for help and support. And like Doc said, get your priorities in order and let the good times come to you instead of having to go look for them where they never are.
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[ClaireB]

Your working at Cedar Point for the summer ?? How cool!! Well on your salary I'd go to thrift stores and goodwill. Also try garage and estate sales on Saturday! So what do you do at CP?

Well, I'm currently working in hotel breakers doing cleaning odd jobs. I hate the job but need it for school In the fall. Thanks for the input, ill keep my eye open for garage sales.