Everything is relative, Pythos.
When someone says "oh girl you look great" as you descibe, perhaps they see or imagine something which you can neither see nor imagine.
It depends where they're coming from.
I think you have a certain right to this judgemental opinion of the commentator and the picture poster - even if your opinion qualifies as downright condemnation. (Thanks for the distinction Nicole).
Indeed, your unique manner almost demands this approach.
I'll read everything in the context of my own experience.
I'll also take into account your unquestionable honesty and openess to other opinions.
This doesn't neccessarily apply to everyone though.
That's what's so important about this thread.
In a simple way cdindy has provoked some wonderful soul-searching and self-questioning.
Opinions vary as personalities vary.
The nice thing here is that one is almost guaranteed a mix of opinions.
Gaby