I am from south east michigan too. I have no idea where any Tri-ess meetings are> I do go to a local meeting at the LGBT center called crossdroads. We tend to see the same faces there, maybe 10-12 people. There was a larger group at the annual dinner dance which was nice. I have talked to some ladies familiar with the meets and they think that they are a little dull, or where in the past when they went.