I was thinking about the thread where someone said they had been dressing for 35 years but had to now stop because of their SO.

To me it brings to mind a good question. Is there a point, if you are involved with a GG gf or spouse, where you have to say you just can't go further in the relationship if it means having to give up the feminine part of your life?

I mean if you can give it up fine. That's great. But if being a girl and being pretty and feminine has become so much a part of your life that it creates a substantial psychological trauma, wouldn't that be grounds to say enough is enough, the relationship has to end?

What are your thoughts?