Lita,

Do CD'rs act like women?
Do all trans women pass?
Are the clothes what drives you? If we all had to wear brown jumpsuits would you feel any less feminine?
Are all trans women pretty?

My point was really very simple and not meant to be antagonistic in the least.
None of those things define a TS woman. A female impersonator can do every single thing I mentioned, but still consider himself a man.
I was trying to say that we are who we are regardless of what we look like.
We're not pretending to be women, we are drawing from something that science can't explain.
By this time next year, I will have boobs installed, will that make me a woman? No it won't. I won't be anything different than I already am.