First, let me say that if this post is not appropriate please delete it as we don't won't to cause any trouble. I have noticed there is not really much in the way of discussions of this subject. The sexual relationship you have with your spouse/SO when being CD.
A little background, I have been provided the great opportunity to dress and experience being in fem with my wife for a few years. I am so lucky to have her as she is not only supportive,but, puts a lot of effort into making my femine experience time ALL that it can be when I have my planned time. Not to mention, I feel fortunate that she is a very beautiful woman, who is a head turner on the street. Yet, she loves me and encourages my fem ego which is something I would not have expected from a woman who could have anyone she wanted figuratively speaking. Both of us have noticed it brings a balance to my personality. I personally find it provides a calming to me. We are both straight and have no desire to be with anyone of the same or equal sex other than each other! We are a couple period. I only CD with her as a matter of my choice. For me, it is not any fun being in fem alone. Further, it is great that she not only allows this part of me to grow;but, she embraces learning and growing with me. It does not hurt that she makes it fun! Now onto the question at hand.
My wife and I are wondering what other CDs with suppoertive SOs do in terms of their sexual relationship IF they have a sexual relationship when in fem? We don't need to know step by step or graphic details;but, more of what are other CDs and their wives/SOs doing if anything in this area? Do you have traditional sex, or something else?
As I mentioned, my wife is all about me being able to experience being a woman in all ways when I am able to CD. This includes our sexual relationship. When in fem the experience is about me experiencing the femine aspect to sexuality in terms of both the sensuality and the physical aspect. Suffice it to say, we almost never have "traditional" sex with me dressed. Oh, that sounds funny Honestly, as I would think many who CD would say, being dressed, let alone in a nice pair panties, matching bra with a shaved body,is a big turn on in terms of taking in the experience of being in fem. Others may not, but, that is fine as CD is by no means about sex. Without going into excess detail, I do things for my wife to allow her to be satisified. However, for me she "seduces" me if you will. In terms of the actual physical sexual aspect, she will put "something" on to enable her to complete the role reversal. Thus, this allows me to feel sex physically as a female as much as I can as possible without female anatomy. The experience is not all about the physical act of sex. We have openly communicated to one another that while the physical aspect is gratifying, it is the build up and experience, such as the mood, dinner, lighting, flirting, all the things our regular relationship has everyday. The only difference is I am exeperienceing it as a female as well.
So, for those out there with a supportive and participating spouse, what do you do in terms of the sexual aspect of your relationship as a CD? We are new to this from the point of communciating with others. However, let me be clear that is not in any way a solicitation or ad to meet someone else. If that is someones intent in responding to us privately or openly in this thread do not do it! As mentioned previously, we are a married couple and have no desire to stray from that commitment. We would just like to learn a little more about the experience and share with others. If you feel that you would rather privately discuss please feel free to message us. Thanks!