Everyday i imagine killing myself. I have a pistol it's a 40 caliber semi auto. I imagine sliding the magazine into the handle and hearing the click then pulling back the slide, i can see the round being pushed up by the spring at the bottom of the magazine and then being pushed forward by the slide in to the barrel. It's double action so i can **** the hammer or not it makes no difference. putting a gun in your mouth and shooting your self has to be the least feminine way to kill yourself but its pretty much guaranteed to do the trick. I'm so disgusted with life that i just don't care how this sounds. Everyday I get in to some stupid argument with my wife who I deeply regret meeting let alone ****ing, impregnating and marrying. its a life sentence though. Today my five year old tells me out of the blue "your still a boy dad" I yelled at him to get his feet off the seat. I was in a foul mood for the rest of the evening. I'm evermore estranged from my parents because they don't want to see me dressed as a female but thats the only way i dress now. My 13 year old referred to me as "he" when talking to my wife on the phone today. I know its insignificant but it was like a knife in the kidney, I said nothing. I can tell he is totally uncomfortable around me and I'm sure his friend he had over yesterday was too. my wife and her friends are nice to me but they don't treat me like one of the girls, they have a conversation with me then turn to each other and exclude me from the girl talk they don't walk away or anything but the circle closes and im not in it. my female friends are better but still I have been practically sexually assaulted and called a man loudly in a public place by a woman who I thought was my friend! she later apologized and said she didn't know that would be hurtful. No i dress like this and sound like this because i want you to treat me like a man!!!! WTF isn't kinda obvious!!!!! That she thought for even a second that i would want to be called a man is disheartening to say the least. then there is the physical stuff. this is by far the most depressing aspect of my life and the most difficult to over come. My self image and what i see in the mirror DO NOT MATCH AT ALL! my self image is pretty much my avatar picture thats a great picture and i often look at it and think "god i wish i looked like her" that sounds absurd im sure since it is me but it's not its a picture.